Friendship Blog..!!

FRIENDSHIP...

• A Real friend:

"A good friend is better then hundred of fake friends".

To find a good friend you may have to look outside from your comfort zone. So be open minded  and branch out.
Your friends have hobbies and talents that you do not have , they could be older or younger ,they could be from different back ground or cultures.So do not limit your self  but remember real friends need to have good standards.
Have you ever had a friend that talk behind your back or spread lies about you.Real friends are not like that you deserve better then that.Real friends like you to be yourself. so you need to choose smart friends not smart in books📖 but smart in life.
So how do you get a friend like that.You always expect people reach out  to you. you need to take initiative.Take the first step and start a conversation.listening is one of the best gift you can give a friend.you have to work to make the friendship grow.Be there for them even when times get tough, when you do this to your friendship really grow.You meet lot of people in life.So it's up to you to choose your friends.so choose wisely choose real friends.

• Toxic friendship:

sometime's its hard to power on to keep going and chugging along.Sometime's we have to stop and cool our engines a bit before we can keep going.when someone who means a lot to you gets off,it hurts! 

you can ignore it but ignoring the pain only prolongs it.And to confront it might cause you even more pain that you have ever felt in your life.But is it worth it to experience all if you could eventually find solace in the end?? 
if it mean you could, 
Let it go.... 
Letting go is  one of the hardest thing in life💔.I am a firm believer that people come into your life with a purpose .And once that  purpose is fulfilled,they inevitably leave.
Now,I have understand that letting people go is something that has to happen sometime's,and it will hurt.But not as much as it would if you associate with that person.In the long run its better of  to distance yourself from those people instead of sticking around and letting them hurt you.And whatever you do, don't lose hope.The right people will come into your life,they might just not have found you yet.
So if you recently realized the "friends" you thought you have not good for you?? that's okay..
Don't think that you are alone in this world,because you are not..your people are on their way,they may be even sitting next to you and you don't even know it.Don't be afraid to reach out and try to make new friends.